Clubs

Do you do any clubs? Well if your school does clubs then why not sign up and try it out? If your not sure your going to like it or your not really good at what they are doing then bring a friend along. Clubs are there to make you feel included in school. Usually there's a club that you will find interesting. So if you are hesitating just do it, you don't have to go if you don't want to. I say its always good to try something than wish you would've done it.

After School Sports

If you are doing an after school sport then you always want to be in a good mood for it because if you aren't then you coach will notice as well as your team! Since you only see them for an hour and a half or more every day or week you want to set a mood. What I mean by that is if they where to describe you then they would say fun, outgoing, nice, friendly. Whatever but make sure its good! And the way to seen better than you really are is to just be really outgoing and cheerful, if you are like that then the people will stop focusing on how bad you are they will focus on wow shes really nice or really fun to be around and then they will start thinking of you as a better player because of your attitude. Now when it comes to fashion choices for your sport you wanna look the part, you wanna seem make it look like your really good even though you may not be the best, so also if appear to look really determined and ready to go then people will think that you are really good! Since ive been telling you how to act the part now here comes to the actual skills, if you have time then just practice one skill in your sport, once you master one then two or three more skills wont be hard to manage. And then just try hard in practice because if you do this then you will get way more out of it then just learning the coaches full name or something stupid like that.

Gossip!!!!!

Nobody wants any gossip about themselves right! So this article is how to avoid people from gossiping about you! First when you meet someone you have to be really really nice so they think that your nice. And anytime that you are hanging out with someone you have to be really nice so always letting them get a drink of water before you letting them stand in line with you for lunch anything you have to have a really good first impression. You also want to have one connection with some one "popular" because if you have that then they can back you up when there talking with other people. So the best way to do it is to have one person in each group or clique that is your friend and what they think of you is really important because then they will never be gossiped about and if your name happens to pop up then they can cover for you! But what you have to do is also always think of what other people think of you so you don't do something stupid then you will regret it later! For example if you cheat on your boyfriend you will here your name everywhere. So if you are sensible and don't do anything bad then you wont have a reason for people talking bad about you! Now if you want to gossip you want to have the most juicy stuff right? Don't make anything up because it will come back to you so always get information from someone else so you can tell them o ya i hear it from so and so, which will get you out of a lot of bad situations. Second if there talking bad about someone that you sort of know but not really then you can say "O, I know her shes actually not that bad." And then they will tell you why they don't like the person so you can get gossip about that person and so you know what there actually like. When you are with only a small group of friends that aren't that tapped in to the gossip don't spill it all out at one time so that it seems like you know a lot more then you actually know! And remember that if your nice to people all the time the they will think that your always nice, even if one time your annoying they wont base you off that so always be nice to people it can only lead to good things!

Homework

Ok Homework its such a drag! Teachers only give it out to you because they want you to practice even though your practicing everyday! Anyways the way to get it done and still  be able to hang out with friends is that you do it after dinner!(if your dinner is regular time 6-7) So if you do it before dinner then you cant hang out with friends and then after dinner you aren't doing anything so that's the time you should do your homework! Over the years I have mastered this concept! So right after dinner you get started and you still have enough time for everything else like checking your email, Facebook or anything else! Also if your teachers give a lot of homework then do a little before dinner and then the rest after. The point is to not do it right after school because you've already been doing work for like 6 or 7 hours and you need a break so taking a couple hours off to relax will be better for you then just going to it right away so follow this pattern and you will have enough time to do everything you need! (this doesn't apply to when you are sick)

Crushes!

Ok, I know this is a touchy subject but everyone wants to know about it anyway so let me share my knowledge! So if you have a crush and you have one class with this person then that class is your best period of the day! First you must look really good, so if you just came back from P.E try to fix yourself up to make you look good. Then you should be really outgoing in the class and make sure to have a definite relationship with your teacher in that class, so it doesn't mean you have to have a good relationship just one that is strong. Because if the teacher likes you then you are noticed and same with if the teacher doesn't like you. And of course put yourself out there don't just hide in the corner and stair at him from a distance you need to lighten yourself up and just be cool! Now if you don't have a class with the person then when you see them in the hallway then you need to look really good and when you pass the person walk with your friends sometimes so it looks like you have friends but then also walk alone sometimes so he can talk to you and not feel uncomfortable. Big tip!, when he makes a joke you can eaither a. act dumb, or b. laugh and make a joke back usually people like b but also people think a is funny! but dont do a all the time otherwise he will actually think your dumb and you dont want that!

First Day

wether you have a lot of friends or you dont have any the first day of school is a big one! Lets say you have a ton of friends an you cant wait to see them all. You will still be nervous because what if they don't like me what if they don't remember me so many what ifs! But if you just calm down and think every class that you have you already have the chance to make 24 more friends. Since your spending a whole year with them you are going to learn there name, what they're hobbies are, and who they hang out with. So to make new friends you cant close yourself up, you have to act really nice, help people when they look stuck, and start small talk with people. If you just do these things the you will already start knowing more people. And If you know one person then they'll introduce you to another person and so on and so forth. Just be yourself and friends will come your way!

Intro

I am making a blog to write about how to deal with middle school because it can be very annoying at times I will help with friends, school, and teachers so ill post as frequent as I can and hope to have some readers!