Monday, September 12, 2011
Gossip!!!!!
Nobody wants any gossip about themselves right! So this article is how to avoid people from gossiping about you! First when you meet someone you have to be really really nice so they think that your nice. And anytime that you are hanging out with someone you have to be really nice so always letting them get a drink of water before you letting them stand in line with you for lunch anything you have to have a really good first impression. You also want to have one connection with some one "popular" because if you have that then they can back you up when there talking with other people. So the best way to do it is to have one person in each group or clique that is your friend and what they think of you is really important because then they will never be gossiped about and if your name happens to pop up then they can cover for you! But what you have to do is also always think of what other people think of you so you don't do something stupid then you will regret it later! For example if you cheat on your boyfriend you will here your name everywhere. So if you are sensible and don't do anything bad then you wont have a reason for people talking bad about you! Now if you want to gossip you want to have the most juicy stuff right? Don't make anything up because it will come back to you so always get information from someone else so you can tell them o ya i hear it from so and so, which will get you out of a lot of bad situations. Second if there talking bad about someone that you sort of know but not really then you can say "O, I know her shes actually not that bad." And then they will tell you why they don't like the person so you can get gossip about that person and so you know what there actually like. When you are with only a small group of friends that aren't that tapped in to the gossip don't spill it all out at one time so that it seems like you know a lot more then you actually know! And remember that if your nice to people all the time the they will think that your always nice, even if one time your annoying they wont base you off that so always be nice to people it can only lead to good things!
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I think that you should be yourself. and not try to hard to make a first impression. if you have to try really hard to be that "cool" person then its a not a good friendship. and having some friends in the popular crowd isnt that important. there shouldnt be so much strategy. just be yourself and have fun with people that like you for you and let everything fall where it may. dont mean to be rude thats just my opinion
ReplyDeleteo no dont worry i wrote this because although there shouldnt be strategies about this there is and also I know people who want to hang out with the popular people. Although this might not apply to you. Also since people want to have friends im telling them just a guideline on how to get some friedns because i know people who would want this information.
ReplyDeleteOk thats cool I just think you should mention somewhere that the best strategy, to find the best friends for yourself, is to be your self. but if people are looking for info to be in the popular group and just want any friends thats fine but if you want true and good friends for you then be yourself. thats all
ReplyDeleteWell its hard to define what is yourself, i mean with your friends you act different ways with each way but each way could be yourself, so im not saying how to be in the popular group im saying that when you have friends you want to have friends in all the groups so people wont spread rumours or gossip about you. Its just so you wont be the one everyones talking about.
ReplyDeleteI just don't think its an abosulute priority to have friends in "all the groups". but if some people really want to stratigize their way through middle school then go ahead. once again not trying to be rude im just saying maybe you should make friends to have friends not to be out of the gossip. to get out of gossip just be a good person.
ReplyDeleteIm not saying its a priority im just telling you how to get out of gossip. And if you are a really good kid then you still can be in gossip your just never noticed. And this is not strategy its just to help people with some problems that they might have. Also just having one good friend is not as good as having multiple good friends, say ones busy then what are you going to do. Or if they stop being your friend then you dont have any good friends so in my opinion its better to have multiple good friends so you can always have someone to talk to or hangout with.
ReplyDeleteok i can't talk about this anymore. cuz it sounds like its getting a little personal. so yea im not gonna comment on this anymore
ReplyDeleteIm sorry if it felt like it was personal i didnt mean it like that i was talking in the gerneral person but sorry if it sounded like that
ReplyDeleteits ok i just realized that u were kinda describing how i feel.. like a lot of my friends are busy and then im alone and stuff so yea i kno u didnt mean it that way i just like realized my life is like sad and kinda pathetic so i got a little mad so yea sorry for overeacting
ReplyDeleteO sorry ya I wasnt thinking of you at all I was just thinking in general and i didnt mean to accidently stumble across how your life is going srry :(
ReplyDeleteaw its all good im like hormonal or something i get really sad for now reason haha i guess thats puberty so no worries i get that it was just in general. wow do you realize this post has 10 comments? haha makes you look like a super star!
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